Action furtive in public toilets
The Cottaging is a little known practice that takes place between men, which can be gay or straight, married well and thus have a double life
In sexuality, particularly in relation to sex, there are various practices that range from how to have relationships to the places where they perform. Many of these practices are derivations of others.
Such is the case of dogging, which is to have physical relationships in public places. There is called cruising, which is go out looking for sexual encounters, this is done by men and women, both heterosexual and homosexual attraction is the variety and novelty in relationships.
The difference between these two activities is that dogging is usually done with a partner and the cruising occurs with strangers and never repeats partner; differs from prostitution because no money involved.
Derived from cruising, the cottaging, anonymous is a sexual activity in public restrooms and is between men: Some times the bathroom is the meeting point for concrete relationships elsewhere.
The name comes from the British slang cottaging, since a "cottage" is a rural house type and in this context refers to public restrooms that have that appearance. Although the name has already been widespread in the United States is known as tea-rooms (tea rooms).
Laud Humphreys, according to the site soitu.es investigated the phenomenon associated with homosexual and heterosexual men, most of the latter married seeking casual encounter, anonymous. The technique is simple, there is a visual contact, greetings subtle, in which one starts and the other continues.
In 1970 Humphreys published the results of a research project, where the cottagging took place in crowded places such as train stations, bus stations, airports. Generally where there are needed more than 15 minutes for the activity.
Sexologist of Imesex, Cesar Perez says:
"We are facing a practice, as there are many, to satisfy desires and fantasies, but also an activity that can generate noise in many people, especially heterosexual, because as a practice among men is frowned upon, and this goes beyond ".
It is an activity between men, which can be gay or straight, doubt is that a married man assumed heterosexual who has this kind of practice is seen as a repressed homosexual. This is not always so, emphasized the specialist.
"Within sexual practices is what we call MSM (Men who have sex with men), which is that heterosexual men is commonly known as" heteroflexibles ", like to have sex with other men without an affection for medium, ie, it is only pleasure.
This also happens a lot in places where there is no access to steady heterosexual encounter, such as prisons, psychiatric hospitals, the army ".
You can not generalize in an activity such as cottaging, that is unique to homosexuals, for within preferences or orientations independent of preferences praise these variants occur, as explained by the Generic Model Preference.
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Laud Humphreys's study, says the cottaging usually performed by married men who have family commitments. The impersonal of the situation helps them maintain emotional distance, and you can even experience an intense orgasm without great effort, which gives an extra attraction activity.
For this reason, a man who has a relationship with another person and to practice this activity may face Sexually Transmitted RISKS.
"Ideally, as in any practice that is not a partner, is using protection and thereby prevent infection, for being with strangers do not know if they have or not, if you protect no risk, and avoid spending some other people.
On the other hand, is the emotional and regarding infidelity, which we call non-compliance of exclusivity between couples, whether married, in dating relationship or union, which includes sexual membership plus sentimental " .
The cottaging is an activity not allowed in many countries, affecting morality; nor dogging, or the cruising are activities that can be done freely. The people who do it are creating their points meeting in secret, which makes such activities are practiced without knowing much about them.
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